Thursday, March 22, 2012

A Rich Life



Seventy-two year old Mary Maxwell gave the invocation at a gathering of caregivers to seniors. She said, "This is the first time I've ever been old.... It just kind of crept up on me." I laughed at her wise and witty speech.


I turned this over in my mind. Life is all about first times isn't it? First time you were a kid, a gawky middle schooler, a teen-ager, and on and on with stages of life. What if you hadn't experienced those stages? Don't you wonder sometimes how you ever made it through those times? And why?


As I get older, I realize that each stage of my life built on to the next. Things I learned as a sixteen year old help me now at this age. Oh I don't mean book learning, I mean lessons in dealing with life e.g. joy, love, sorrow, passion, patience, faith, honesty and so many more that enrich one's life.


The best thing about working through these life lessons is sharing what you've learned. No, I don't mean preaching to a teen about the horrors of smoking or lecturing on not texting while driving. (Heck, there were no cell phones when I was a teen.!) 


I am talking about being able to be a good example to others going through stages in their lives. They can see I made it and they can too. With my past experience in life, I can be empathetic, listen, and understand what someone else is feeling.


I want to remember every single part of my life and, when asked, to use my experience to help others. Writing your life story is a wonderful way to share your life with others and to let them know the trauma and triumphs you faced. Your life story is a gift to family and friends. It's easy to start. Write down that story that is told at every family gathering. I'm sure it will spark many more for you. Enjoy the writing and re-visiting of your life.

5 comments:

Pat McDermott said...

I enjoyed your insightful comments about life lessons, J.Q. I can recall learning to drive and my father telling me to keep the radio off, as it was too distracting! As for writing my life story, I write fiction to forget about a lot of that, though my experiences sometimes trickle into the pages. Thanks to Mary Maxwell for inspiring you to write this lovely post!

Joylene said...

Very wisely put, Janet. You're ahead of me. I still want to be middle-aged, wondering about retirement. LOL. Part of those stages you mentioned went by way too fast. Today I'm enjoying my freedom, requirements on my time are decreasing; however, I would love less aches and pains. And whatever happened to my eyesight! Or why can't I suddenly bend like I used to?

I've tagged you on my blog.

Joylene Nowell Butler, Author

J Q Rose said...

Hi Pat, Yes, I'm sure many of our fictional characters have a piece of our history included in their personalities. Thanks for stopping in.

J Q Rose said...

Ah, yes, Joylene, the golden years..HA! Thanks for tagging me. I'll have to look up p.77 for sure. Hope it isn't a boring passage...oh what am I saying? Surely none of my writing is boring!!! LOL

Susanne Drazic said...

Hi J Q! Enjoyed your post. Now I'm thinking of some of the lessons I've learned throughout my life. Some are great memories, others not so great.

Have a wonderful week!