Tuesday, July 2, 2019

IWSG Blog Hop: My Character is ME!

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July Question 

July 3 question: What personal traits have you written into your character(s)?

Very personal indeed! My character, Lauren Staab, is me! Let me count the ways.
Deadly Undertaking
Romantic suspense
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  • Yes, she is the daughter of a funeral director just like me.
  • She works hard and is reliable like me. 
  • She eats the same food I do. 
  • Her condo is decorated like a home I would have if I were 35 years old again. 
  • The funeral home she works in is modeled after my Dad's funeral home.
  • She overthinks things like I do.
  • She's smart like me. (wink wink)
In fact, I had a very, very, very difficult time establishing this character because I was too up close and personal with her. When I finally separated me from Lauren and stepped back to get a different perspective of her, I was able to continue writing the book.

I have never had a problem developing a character using my imagination to conjure her up. But since she was me, I guess I couldn't get the brainstorming/creativity to flow. Have you ever had that problem when developing a character? Please leave a comment below and let us know your experience. Thank you!!
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24 comments:

  1. I've had two characters who were really close to the real me but I had no problem writing about them. The one that gave me the greatest challenge was the one furthest from the real me.

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    1. I was surprised at how the real me was stopping me from writing the character me. I guess I put her in a situation the real me couldn't deal with? Thanks for your feedback, Diane.

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  2. I bet she's a multi-faceted character, thanks to that. I can see it would be complicated to seperate yourself for purposes of the plot!

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    1. Multi-faceted character. Great word description. Perhaps she was so complicated, I couldn't get a handle on her.??

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  3. Hey, JQ. Don't you think we always have some of ourselves in our characters? I have characters eating popcorn in several of my books because I love to eat popcorn. The mothers in several of my books are a lot like me. I can't imagine celebrating characteristics that I don't admire--at least not in the H & H. Now my bad guys, that's a different story. :) Love this post and your book. I've shared. :0

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    1. I agree. Some of me is also in every one of my characters for sure. Maybe I enjoy writing the bad guys the most cause I'm not in their character and can get real creative and crazy. LOL

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  4. Yes. If I get one that much like me I can't write them because for some reason I connect on an emotional level and stops me cold. So distance and objective with just mild things like moral and reasons for doing things. Happy IWSG!

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    1. Juneta, I think you nailed it for me. Too caught up in the emotional aspect and can't see clearly how to get out of the situation. Thanks.

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  5. It's been really interesting to read people's answers to this month's question and what similarities they have with their characters. Lauren sounds like a great character :)

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    1. Thanks, Ellen. I love this blog hop because so many voices to hear on the question make for an interesting experience.

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  6. Interesting idea that when we write characters so similar to ourselves, we may struggle more. But growing up as a funeral director's daughter is certainly an interesting childhood that would draw in the reader.

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    1. Thanks, Jennifer. Yes, at the time I wrote the book, not many "funeral parlor" stories were written. I thought it was a unique setting, so it would garner readers'curiosity. I'm finding more and more stories now taking place in the setting.

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  7. Hi,
    I can identify with your identifying so heavily to your character because that happened to me. I really had to pull back, which was a hard thing for me to do, and put some distance between me and my MC so that I could write the story. This happened more than once through the writing of the manuscript.
    Shalom aleichem,
    Pat G @ EverythingMustChange

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    1. Thank you, Pat. I'm glad to hear you had a problem too with identifying too closely with a character. I thought I was just weird. Now I know there is at least one more person like me and I'm not alone !! LOL

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    1. LOL--that's a great comment. Made me LOL! Thanks!

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  9. You really did create a character like yourself. I'm thinking that it must have had challenges. Did you think, OHG, my friends/relatives are going to know she is me?

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    1. Ha! I never worried about anyone knowing the character was really me, or maybe subconciously I did and that was what made it so difficult to write her! Hmmmm.

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  10. No matter how I tailored it, everyone simply assumes my protagonist is me. Ha. Happy IWSG!

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  11. I loved the character of Lauren, JQ. That's interesting that you say you struggled with her. She came across really well and engaging. I've never based a character on myself, but your post resonates because I'm just in the middle of editing a book for someone who has done exactly that. She, too, has said how much she has struggled with it, so it was interesting to read your comments.

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    1. Thank you, Helena for your kind words about Lauren. I wonder if the writer needs to step back and not identify so closely with her "character ". That is interesting.

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  12. When I read Deadly Undertaking, I recognized you immediately. lol Such a great book. I had a hard time with my heroine in Switched, Too. She's so serious, so intense. That was me when I was younger--basically until I met my husband who made me loosen up. But that character was so personal she was difficult to write.

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